Un’Amica mi ha fatto notare che esiste un’altra categoria di narcisista a parte quella da me trattata…è vero, ma ne parlerò un’altra volta per non affrontare sempre lo stesso argomento!
Oggi voglio parlare del senso di impotenza che accomuna molte vittime di atti persecutori.
Innanzitutto voglio precisare che questo articolo nasce da alcune mie riflessioni e dal frutto della mia esperienza personale.
Spesso mi sono sentita chiedere il motivo della mia “resa rispetto agli eventi della mia vita”. Più che di una resa credo che si tratti of what I call ... a psychological paralysis, difficult to understand on the outside but on the contrary, shared by everyone who lives or has lived experience claustrophobic nature of situational triggers when the subject experiences a mental coercion, that is forced to face situations that do not want and therefore triggers a defense mechanism that leads him to feel bad in all those situations where it sees a way out. I refer to being or have been subject to episodes stalkizzanti.
shame, fear of not being understood or not to be believed, fueling this "paralysis". But even worse is the disappointment and mistrust that stems from the fact of not being taken seriously by the operators responsible for the protection of victims (associations, psychologists, judges, police, etc. ..) when they underestimate the episodes and the signals indicative of the harassment. Some bear because they think they deserve what they suffer.
Other times, the inaction comes from fear of retaliation, and then fear not .. Or the knowledge that what you are experiencing is a crime and that there is now a law to protect the "problem".
Very often the victim is constrained, unable to react and rebel against the manipulations and attacks of his persecutor.
indifference, opportunism, ingenuity, insensitivity to the problem or, worse, complicity with the persecutor of all who come into contact with the victim, not exacerbate his already present sense of despair and hopelessness, building them a sense of powerlessness that many in all 'outside can not understand.
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