The vicissitudes of my life made me realize how easy today to take the wrong course to justice after a CTU little empirical and reliable.
I rely not only on my experience but in many cases, I quote a few as an example (see link at bottom of post).
one time shared the custody was very favorable, now that the law is producing effects in the lives of many women and children does not leave me indifferent. Today it is often put into question the competence of a mother from an authoritarian measure.
We all aware of how important it is to have in our lives led by both parent figures, preferably in agreement with each other. But not always this is possible.
Foster care is not shared, in my opinion, the panacea to the conflict between the spouses that are left. Statistics show that 54% of cases of separation are caused by problems of physical, psychological, sexual and economic.
Fostering shared claim to reconcile the irreconcilable and forces (with the imposition of the Act) partners to look at and feel all the time to decide on the organization of daily life of the child.
This law is just another weapon in the hands of those partners who are violent and resentful because it allows them to have more control and "access" in the lives of their former companion.
Today we are informed, unfortunately, every day, stories that lead to tragedies in which to be involved are often women and children without protection and where being able to meet the other parent, has allowed us to take revenge on former partners .
In this sense I do not think one can assess and treat all cases of separation the same way. The shared custody is fine in cases of separation of conflict, whereas the other mentioned above is, in my opinion, the worst solution.
Family mediation is impossible in cases of forced situations you experience episodes of violence or stalking. Today, however, social workers treat violence cases and those of normal litigation likewise making no distinction and even demanding a collaborative relationship between the former partners even where there are no merit in this situation.
This, to me, as well as expose women to greater risk, you see the accused and the alleged lack of cooperation with the former partner. They were even to take away their children.
Italian law now, rather than protect women who are already victims of violent men and / or persecutors, punishes for not being able to defend themselves. It 's a paradox and absurd that I think merits consideration.
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